Sir Brian Oestmann

Professional Dominant

Alt-Sex Educator

Adult Entertainer

215 301 8701

Philadelphia / New York City / Washington DC

In-Call or Out-Calls by Appointment


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         There are many reasons to visit a professional: maybe you are inexperienced or "new," and don't really know where to go. Maybe you are busy, and have no time to invest in a power-exchange relationship, while still wanting to engage in your kink interests. Maybe you seek a skilled disciplinarian, who you wish to have a strictly professional relationship with. Or maybe you just want to learn a few skills to take home with you.

        My name is Brian Oestmann, and I am a professional Dominant and alternate sexuality educator in Philadelphia, PA. I began my journey in studying kink while living in London in early 2011, and have since honed My skills and practice My craft on many people. I offer BDSM sessions, classes, and consultations in a location of your choice, and also travel to New York City or Washington DC.

        I enjoy both the seasoned player and the newcomer, and invite any and all who are also interested in learning about the complex world of power exchange and communication dynamics to explore this site, and see if you can find interests on which we are both compatible.


Shoot Me an email or text message if you would like to inquire about a session, or if you would like Me to teach/speak at an event you are organizing.


-Sir Brian

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Sessions and services

I am available on an for sessions, classes, couple's advisory, player mediation, and more,
as either in-call visits or traveling appointments.

I take My in-calls, at a beautiful, clean, and fully equipped location in Center City Philadelphia,
a few blocks from City Hall, and close to all major transportation and amenities.

Interested parties are urged to look at the links above,
which will usually answer all questions, from rules, to limits, to tributes.

To enquire about public speaking, performance art, or large scale education,
please email Me.
To book a session or engagement with Me, you may 
call 215 301 8701, e-mail, or fill out My booking form.
  • If calling, do so between the hours of 10 AM and 12 Midnight. Be prepared to answer some basic questions about what you're interested in, how long of a session you seek, and when you were thinking of doing it. I do not listen to "whatever you wish" requests. Be sure you have reviewed all info above!

  • I am usually available every day with four to six hours advance notice. I ALWAYS prefer 24h notice, and completely reserve the right to deny you your appointment if I feel said notice is not sufficient, at My discretion.

  • You may defer or lower your tribute (at My discretion) by inquiring if I need any new equipment/toys. High priority items may significantly help both of us out. Also, have you seen my specials?

For phone or cam sessions, please check My NiteFlirt lines,
or use My call buttons below!

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