rules of engagement: ten commandments
If I am regularly seeing you, and you wish to part ways, you will ask respectfully to be released. You will understand that as long as you are under My control, you give up your right to decide to just walk away without at least a conversation or message. If the problem can not be sufficiently resolved, we will agree to part ways. Your information will be vaulted or destroyed upon request, and any property returned. Understand that we live in separate worlds when we are apart.
Frequently asked questions
What is a complete list of services You offer?
I offer discreet, private experiences with no organic sex for individuals or couples interested in BDSM or kink, either at a private location or at their homes.
I teach individuals or couples how to incorporate new techniques in play, as well as run public and semi-public group classes on several BDSM subjects.
I take on a relationship advisor/mediator role with individuals wishing to "come out" to their partners, and serve as a kink informational hub for newcomers to the scene.
I can speak, teach, and perform at non-kink and vanilla events to help normalize the practices of BDSM and foster understanding between communities.
I take on informational and erotic phone calls and appointments.
I 100% self-produce and release educational, artistic, and pornographic video and photo content featuring a wide range of activities and interests.
I serve as ghost designer and consultant on a variety of kink and vanilla artistic projects.
Wait, what do You mean "no organic sex?"
I'm completely new to this and have no idea what I like/want.
What's a session like?
A session is defined by each person's interests and personality, carefully crafted to be an individual experience that works within a common framework and comfort level. I pride Myself on not "breaking My toys," and can be vetted for in the local BDSM community, as well as by industry professionals in at least three countries.
I am older/in poor health. Can I still come see You?
I see You used to take Your in-calls at Destiny's Chamber. Since that dungeon is gone, do You operate our of another professional dungeon in the area?
Being extremely selective, I have not currently found a space that fits My needs and idiosyncracies. I will update this site when I do.