Sir Brian Oestmann

Professional Dominant

Alt-Sex Educator

Adult Entertainer

215 301 8701

Philadelphia / New York City / Washington DC

In-Call or Out-Calls by Appointment


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 A good way to explore one's BDSM interest is to contact a local professional Dominant who can help you safely explore your interests. There are many reasons to visit a professional: maybe you are inexperienced or "new," and don't really know where to go. Maybe you are busy, and have no time to invest in a power-exchange relationship, while still wanting to relieve your kink interests. Perhaps you seek a skilled disciplinarian, who you wish to have a strictly professional relationship with. Or you may just want to learn.


    This is where I come in. My name is Brian Oestmann, and I am a professional Dominant and alternate sexuality educator in Philadelphia, PA. I began my journey in studying kink while living in London in early 2011, and have since honed My skills and practice My craft on many people. I offer sterile BDSM sessions either in the comfort of your home, or in the beautiful and ever changing space of Destiny's Chamber, and also travel to New York City or Washington DC. I regularly teach in Philadelphia, and have an extensive teaching, speaking, and performance record.


    I enjoy both the seasoned player and the newcomer, and invite any and all who are also interested in learning about the complex world of power exchange and communication dynamics to explore this site, and see if you can find interests on which we are both compatible. By all means, do shoot Me an email or text message if you would like to inquire about a session, or if you would like Me to teach/speak at an event you are organizing.


-Sir Brian

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To book a session or engagement with Me, you may 
call 215 301 8701, e-mail, or fill out My booking form.
  • If calling, do so between the hours of 10 AM and Midnight. Be prepared to answer some basic questions about what you're interested in, how long of a session you seek, and when you were thinking of doing it. I do not listen to "whatever you wish" requests! Be sure you have reviewed all three links above!

  • I am usually available every day with four hours advance notice. I ALWAYS prefer 24h notice, and completely reserve the right to deny you your appointment if I feel I have not received sufficient notice.

  • You may defer or lower your tribute (at My discretion) by inquiring if I need any new equipment/toys. High priority items may significantly help both of us out. Also, have you seen my specials?

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The Rooms at Destiny's Chamber

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The classic dungeon is furnished with a St. Andrews Cross, a bondage bed with an under-bed cage, and a spanking bench and is perfect for classic S&M scenes!


The bondage room, containing a massage table with attachment points, a tickle bondage chair, a rope bondage frame, is perfect for restraint and takedown scenes of all sorts!


The Doctor's office is where your fantasies and nightmares come true, equipped with an an exam table, a vaccum bed, and all sorts of instruments to poke and prod at you, it is idea for that checkup you've been missing!


The Domestic Quarters are a small, intimate room, perfect for disciplinary sessions, OTK, foot worship, and also makes for a great space to teach and train kink theory!


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Brian Oestmann

P.O. Box 41844

Philadelphia, PA 19101

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