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Brian Oestmann

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Sir Brian Oestmann

Professional Dominant

Alt-Sex Educator

Adult Entertainer

215 301 8701

brian@phillysir.com

Philadelphia / New York City / Washington DC

In-Call or Out-Calls by Appointment

 

welcome to Phillysir.com

 A good way to explore one's BDSM interest is to contact a local professional Dominant who can help you safely explore your interests. There are many reasons to visit a professional: maybe you are inexperienced or "new," and don't really know where to go. Maybe you are busy, and have no time to invest in a power-exchange relationship, while still wanting to relieve your kink interests. Perhaps you seek a skilled disciplinarian, who you wish to have a strictly professional relationship with. Or you may just want to learn.

 

    This is where I come in. My name is Brian Oestmann, and I am a professional Dominant and alternate sexuality educator in Philadelphia, PA. I began my journey in studying kink while living in London in early 2011, and have since honed My skills and practice My craft on many people. I offer sterile BDSM sessions either in the comfort of your home, or in the beautiful and ever changing space of Destiny's Chamber, and also travel to New York City or Washington DC. I regularly teach in Philadelphia, and have an extensive teaching, speaking, and performance record.

 

    I enjoy both the seasoned player and the newcomer, and invite any and all who are also interested in learning about the complex world of power exchange and communication dynamics to explore this site, and see if you can find interests on which we are both compatible. By all means, do shoot Me an email or text message if you would like to inquire about a session, or if you would like Me to teach/speak at an event you are organizing.

 

-Sir Brian

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Sessions

To book a session or engagement with Me, you may 
call 215 301 8701, e-mail brian@phillysir.com, or fill out My booking form.
  • If calling, do so between the hours of 10 AM and Midnight. Be prepared to answer some basic questions about what you're interested in, how long of a session you seek, and when you were thinking of doing it. I do not listen to "whatever you wish" requests! Be sure you have reviewed all three links above!

  • I am usually available every day with four hours advance notice. I ALWAYS prefer 24h notice, and completely reserve the right to deny you your appointment if I feel I have not received sufficient notice.

  • You may defer or lower your tribute (at My discretion) by inquiring if I need any new equipment/toys. High priority items may significantly help both of us out. Also, have you seen my specials?

For phone or cam sessions, please check My NiteFlirt lines,
or use My call buttons below!

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Tributes & Specials

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Rules & FAQ

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Interests & Limits

The Rooms at Destiny's Chamber

for rentals, additional staff, and more info on the space, contact destinyschamber.com

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The Black Room

The classic dungeon-style room of the Chamber is furnished with a St. Andrews Cross, a bondage bed with an under-bed cage, a spanking bench, an OTK chair, and tons of toys to delight and torture!

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The Red Room

The bondage room of the Chamber, containing a massage table with attachment points, a tickle bondage chair, a rope bondage frame, and all the restraints one could possibly want!

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The Medical Room

The Doctor's office of the Chamber is where your fantasies and nightmares come true! Equipped OBGYN table, an exam table, a vaccum bed, and all sorts of instruments to poke and prod at you!

 

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written mail, or gifts can also be sent to:

Brian Oestmann

P.O. Box 41844

Philadelphia, PA 19101

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British Education

I started My journey in professional kink in early 2011 while living in London UK. I always had a non-formal interest, but there I began attending munches, events, and workshops and focused My early skills on rope, corporal punishment, and chastity, taking only out-calls and interacting with all types of folk.