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A good way to explore one's BDSM interest is to contact a local professional Dominant who can help you safely explore your interests. There are many reasons to visit a professional: maybe you are inexperienced or "new," and don't really know where to go. Maybe you are busy, and have no time to invest in a power-exchange relationship, while still wanting to relieve your kink interests. Perhaps you seek a skilled disciplinarian, who you wish to have a strictly professional relationship with. Or you may just want to learn.

My name is Brian Oestmann, and I am a professional Dominant and alternate sexuality educator in Philadelphia, PA. I began my journey in studying kink while living in London in early 2011, and have since honed My skills and practice My craft on many people. I offer BDSM sessions, classes, and consultations in a location of your choice, and also travel to New York City or Washington DC. I have taught regularly in Philadelphia, and have an extensive record in kink.

I enjoy both the seasoned player and the newcomer, and invite any and all who are also interested in learning about the complex world of power exchange and communication dynamics to explore this site, and see if you can find interests on which we are both compatible. Shoot Me an email or text message if you would like to inquire about a session, or if you would like Me to teach/speak at an event you are organizing.

-Sir Brian

More About Me:

I started My journey in professional kink in early 2011 while living in London UK. I always had a non-formal interest, but there I began attending munches, events, and workshops and focused My early skills on rope, corporal punishment, and chastity, taking only out-calls and interacting with all types of folk.

I made My way to Philly in 2012, where I quickly joined up with local groups, became a staple at the Aviary, and was hired by The International House of Pain, My first home dungeon. I was eventually invited as a performer to Diabolique 2012, where I enjoyed the contact of the public, wider scene. I can often be found at events around the city, chatting about BDSM to some surprised onlooker.

I eventually transferred and began working at Destiny's Chamber, Philadelphia's oldest continuously run dungeon. I enjoy the sharing of experiences, and try to make who are curious feel welcome without being pressured. Outfest 2013 marked the first outdoor city event I was a part of, sharing my love of whips, blades, and knives with the public. I was featured on a couple of blogs here and there, and always have time to clear up people's notions on the subject.

I always believed that BDSM, kink, and alternative sexuality need not be clouded in a shroud of mystery or exclusivity. In mid-2013, I began teaching regular monthly rope bondage classes at The Kink Shoppe so that folk at home could also experience these activities with each other.

There has always been a misconception that I only play with very intense visitors, and that is not true. I enjoy a very wide range of experiences, and delight in bringing newcomers to the lifestyle. However, for the more experienced, I can easily bring up My sadism to to match many wide mind-expanding limits (ask Me about the NYE 2013 human sparkler tree pictured above).

I offer a wide amount of play, including medical, blood, and needle. I am a very big advocate of hygiene and safety in My practice, ensuring that the highest standards are always kept. My tools are often replaced, and My cleaning methods are on par with those of hospitals. Medical sessions are only offered with items that are one-use, or can be fully sterilized to hospital standards.

In My quest to demystify the mystical, I want to make sure that anyone who wants to be able to ask questions or experience something has a chance to do so. In 2013, to promote the Kink Shoppe classes as a relaxed environment and to show that kink is within reach of all, I began hosting a free night of rope bondage demonstrations every First Friday, starting at 6 PM. Come visit Me anytime!

In the past few years, I have been growing My little online niche in order to spread My love of kink further and further. If a session is our of your price range, a class is too formal, and a performance is too public, I also produce a wide variety of content online, including erotic and educational videos, BDSM graphic art, and take phone sessions and advice calls.

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To book a session or engagement with Me, you may

call 215 301 8701, e-mail brian@phillysir.com, or fill out My booking form.

If calling, do so between the hours of 10 AM and Midnight. Be prepared to answer some basic questions about what you're interested in, how long of a session you seek, and when you were thinking of doing it. I do not listen to "whatever you wish" requests! Be sure you have reviewed all three links above!

I am usually available every day with four hours advance notice. I ALWAYS prefer 24h notice, and completely reserve the right to deny you your appointment if I feel I have not received sufficient notice.

You may defer or lower your tribute (at My discretion) by inquiring if I need any new equipment/toys. High priority items may significantly help both of us out. Also, have you seen my specials?